Life as an American-born Muslim

By: Keshav Patel

Everyone has their own experiences that shape their personality and how they act. Throughout my life, I have noticed that religion can affect individuals in different ways. Some people can grow using their religious experiences to develop good traits like determination, empathy and discipline. Growing up in a liberal and diverse town, I have friends that are Muslim-Americans. From my knowledge, I am aware that being a devout Muslim requires a lot of time and dedication. I became curious as to how American-born Muslims were able to manage their religious duties which differ significantly from their academic and social duties.

There are certain restrictions that devout Muslims follow that can become difficult to follow when living in America. For example, the meat they eat must be prepared in a humane way otherwise it is not allowed to be consumed. Often, it becomes difficult for American-Muslims to follow these restrictions because fast food restaurants are not always specific on the manner that the animal is killed and prepared. However, compared to my childhood I have notice that there are more restaurants that inform consumers if the meat is halal or not. As more Muslim immigrants enter American society, restaurants are becoming more accommodating towards the restrictions that Islam requires.

American Muslims also have to adjust to the difference in cultural norms between Muslim countries and American countries. In the Middle East, societies tend to be more conservative while American societies are more liberal. Women are covered up with more clothing in Muslim countries and their sexuality is not flaunted as much as it is in American society. For an American-born Muslim it can be difficult to explain to their immigrant parents of the different cultural events that take place in America because they are so foreign to people who were raised in a conservative society. It can be hard for children to convince their parents to allow them to stay out late, dance at parties or go to major events like prom. As children grow up they begin to date and it is hard for American-born Muslims to get the blessing of their parents to date openly. Also, immigrant parents often do not approve of their children’s significant other if they are not follower of Islam.

Overall, being a Muslim in America has its difficulties because often it limits the freedom that children have. But it also can help shape children into becoming strong, independent adults. It can develop a good work ethic and sense of time management. I interviewed my childhood friend Aziz Kapadia, who is a full-time commuting freshman student at Rutgers University- New Brunswick and is a devout Muslim. He intends to major in biomedical engineering and perhaps become a doctor in the future. I have seen him grow and can tell that his dedication to Islam has positively affected his life.

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